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Dont Allow It to Continue

If your spouse continues to take you for granted, dont allow it to happen. For instance, perhaps your spouse comes home, throws his or her dirty clothes on the floor Baker Mayfield Jersey , asks you whats for dinner and all without a friendly kiss stop it right there. You can simply tell your spouse that youre busy and would he or she mind fixing dinner or innocently tell them that you didnt know you were supposed to take care of dinner. Leave the dirty clothes right there on the floor. When you pick them up, cook dinner and continue to be taken for granted nothing will change. Put a stop to it now so that its not expected.

When Nothing Works

When you are constantly being taken for granted and youve tried discussing it with your spouse, there may be nothing left to do but lay it out flat. If you cant stick up for yourself, you will constantly be taken for granted? If its gotten to the point where you just cant stand much more, tell your spouse that youve had enough. Point out that youve tried to let him or her know how you feel and that nothing has changed. Then, you may suggest counseling or marital therapy. This way, they know that something has to be done or they may actually lose you. Thats a way to wake them up!

When you follow the tips and tricks in this article Antonio Callaway Jersey , you can stop being taken for granted and start being treated like a real person.
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